When caring for someone with dementia, helping them eat well is more than just offering food—it’s about understanding behavior around food, their needs and responding in ways that make them feel safe, respected, and comfortable. The CARES® Approach provides a helpful framework for dementia care, and the third step—Respond Appropriately—is especially important during mealtimes.
Understanding Behavior Around Food
People with dementia may refuse to eat, get distracted, become frustrated, or have difficulty using utensils. These behaviors aren’t random—they often reflect underlying needs or discomfort. Responding appropriately requires recognizing these signs and adjusting your approach based on what you know about the person.
Use What You Know About Them
Each person has unique food preferences, habits, and routines developed over a lifetime. Use this knowledge to make meals more familiar and enjoyable:
• Favorite Foods: Serve dishes they’ve always loved.
• Cultural Preferences: Respect traditions or dietary restrictions.
• Mealtime Routines: Stick to familiar times and settings for meals.
For example, if someone always ate lunch at noon with soft music playing, recreating that experience may help them feel more at ease and willing to eat.
Respond with Calm and Care
A person may become upset or confused during mealtime. If they push food away or say they’ve already eaten, avoid correcting them. Instead, gently encourage or offer an alternative. How you respond can reduce anxiety and encourage better eating habits.
Be Flexible and Patient
Eating might take longer. They may need visual cues, hand-over-hand guidance, or even finger foods. Be prepared to adapt as their needs change, always with a focus on dignity and comfort.
Create a Positive Environment
Minimize distractions, offer foods with appealing colors and smells, and sit at eye level while offering support. A calm and inviting atmosphere can make a big difference.
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