How Does Your Approach Feel to Others?
You learned about the Positive Physical Approach in Key #2. To truly understand its impact, try this simple exercise:
1. Sit in a chair and ask a friend or co-worker to approach you quickly.
2. Have them lean over your head and give you a command without greeting you or saying your name first.
3. Pay attention to how this makes you feel—startled, uncomfortable, or even anxious.
Now, repeat the exercise using the Positive Physical Approach:
1. Have the person approach you calmly from the front, at eye level.
2. They should greet you by name or offer a friendly gesture before making a request.
3. Notice the difference—how much more comfortable and respected you feel.
This simple adjustment in approach can significantly improve communication with people, especially those living with dementia.
CARES Tips!
Focus on What People Can Do
Care interactions should not always be led by the caregiver. Instead, focus on the abilities that people still have and encourage them to participate in activities they enjoy. By asking them to show you how to do something they love, you empower them, boost their self-esteem, and create meaningful engagement.
For example, if a person enjoys folding clothes, let them help with laundry. If they like gardening, invite them to water plants. Small moments like these bring joy and a sense of purpose to their day—and yours.
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