Helping Loved Ones with Dementia at Mealtimes

Mealtime is more than just eating—it’s a time to connect, feel comfort, and stay independent. For people living with dementia, eating can sometimes become a challenge. That’s why it’s important to help them keep their abilities for as long as possible.

Some people with dementia can still feed themselves but may need a little reminder. A gentle cue like, “Take a sip of your juice,” can go a long way. Others may need more help—like having their food unwrapped or being handed their spoon or fork.

What matters most is giving just the right amount of help—not too much, not too little. When we step in and do everything for them, even with good intentions, they may lose skills faster. But when we let them do what they can, we help them stay stronger and more confident.
So, at mealtimes, take your time. Offer help when needed, but also give them space to do things on their own. It’s a small act of care that makes a big difference.

Caring Goes Beyond the Plate

While we’re supporting their independence at the table, we also need to think about what they’re eating and drinking. That brings us to another important part of mealtime care—nutrition.

Don’t Forget Nutrition

Mealtimes are also a great chance to check on their overall health. Making sure your loved one is eating the right kinds of food and drinking enough fluids is very important. As dementia progresses, people may forget to eat or drink, or lose interest in food altogether. Poor nutrition can lead to weight loss, infections, slow healing, and more.

Try to keep meals enjoyable and relaxed. Offer favourite foods when possible, and encourage small sips of water or juice throughout the day. It’s not just about feeding the body—it’s about caring for the whole person.

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S – Sharing with Others Helps Build Better Care Together

S – Share With Others

This is the last step in the CARES® Approach. Sharing with others in dementia care is very important. It helps the whole care team stay on the same page and give better, more consistent support. When you take the time for sharing with others in dementia, it helps the person feel more understood and supported. It also brings the care team closer, building trust and connection. This step can make a big difference, and knowing why it matters will help you see how powerful sharing with others in dementia can be.

When you share, keep these points in mind:

• Clearly explain what you saw and what you did.
• Talk about what worked well and what was hard.
• Give details that can help others support the person better.
• Even small details can make a big difference.
• Make sure to share with kindness and understanding.

Sharing with others in dementia care isn’t just about passing on updates — it helps the whole team work together so the person feels cared for and safe.

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