To truly understand people suffering from dementia and their behavior, you must first get to know them. You need to learn what is typical and what is “out of the ordinary” for them. For example, if they usually enjoy morning walks but start refusing to go outside, this could be a change worth noting.
To connect with dementia patients, spend time with them and talk to their family. Learn about their likes and dislikes, what upsets them, and what comforts them.
Dementia Caregiving Tips
Families can share important information about the person with dementia, no matter where you work. Some of the things you can learn from families include information about: For instance, knowing that the person loved gardening can help you integrate small plants or gardening activities into their routine for comfort and familiarity.
• The person’s childhood
• Brothers and sisters
• Activities they like to do now
• Food preferences
• Pets
• High school
• Hobbies
• Jobs
• Sports
• Travel
• Awards
• Children and grandchildren
• War or trauma experience (such as the loss of a child)
Try This: The next time you are around a family member or friend of someone with dementia, ask them to tell you a few things about one of the topics above. For example, you could say, ‘Can you tell me about their favorite hobby or a memory they often talk about?’ This can help spark a meaningful conversation.
Talk with a family member or friend about the person. Explain that this will help you better care for someone with dementia.